A Woman’s Biological Need To Be Perfect

Let’s rewind to the primitive era: evolutionarily, women had to look good in order to attract the most powerful, providing man that would be able to ultimately support her and a family. The man had to go out and hunt for the family; he was the provider. That’s just the way it was for our ancestors.

This “need to be perfect” idea has been stored in our DNA for generations. It’s no wonder that it’s such a prominent theme for us women. Besides all the messages from social media and society about how we should look and act, we have to acknowledge that this force is also a biologically engrained idea. Acne? Cover it up. Wrinkling face? Get botox. No breasts? Get implants. The only thing winning from this “need to be perfect” is the cosmetic industry. But, that’s a whole other topic.

I’m here to state that this “need to be perfect” is 100% outdated. We no longer need to impress the opposite sex in order to guarantee financial security, rights, or protection. It’s the 21st century; we have the power to do those things alone. Let go of your need to be “conventionally” perfect. Now, that doesn’t mean getting dolled-up to go out is a bad thing; it’s essential to feel good about yourself. But, from time to time, ask yourself: “am I doing this for the right reasons? I am doing this for me or to impress and fit into the mold that society has created?”

When we tap into our authenticity and accept our perfect imperfections just as they are, we find freedom. There’s nothing more powerful than a woman who accepts herself just as she is. Go outside without worrying if you have make-up on and wear your baggy sweatpants to the grocery store if that’s how you feel comfortable. Be yourself for yourself and nobody else.